I'm moving on up -- and out of my friend's spare bedroom!
After two days of "working" with my school's financial "aid" office, I finally got approved for a new loan. I know everybody keeps telling me "don't get student loans, you'll spend a lifetime paying them off."
I know. I had to come to terms with this when I made the decision to go to school. I already knew I was going to be in debt past my little blue eyes. I'm not winning the lottery, I don't have a rich uncle who is going to leave me his estate, nobody is handing over their checkbook to me and I've applied to and been denied several grants and scholarships already (stupid being white, average, childless and unabused). So what else is there? (Honestly, if anyone has a helpful, definite, precise solution, please, I beg you, please tell me!)
Mark you calendars for April 6th. That's the day I load up a U-Haul truck with my bedroom full of belongings and spread out in my new apartment! I'm excited and nervous at the same time. I've never lived by myself, alone before. I've never been responsible for an electric bill or putting down a deposit for its service. The last time I was legally responsible to pay rent - my 1/3 of it anyway - I was 20 and living in Raleigh N.C. I shortly went broke and moved back in with my parents. This time that is not an option.
My friends who I live currently live with are happy and excited for me. I think it's because they will finally be able to run around their own house in the nude. The Mister said, "I can see you talking to your neighbors at all hours of the night about something you saw on T.V." I like the Office Space reference, don't you?
My new place won't be completely empty. I do have some stuff: a bed, a skillet, a bookcase (with books!), a dresser, a desk and a chair, a coffee mug, a T.V. and a computer.
All I need is a couch and some food.
P.S. don't worry Milligans, Olates and Rudats, I shouldn't need your help, all though I will need the rest of my stuff out of your garages.
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4 comments:
Congats vicki!! Living alone isnt so bad. I did it once and it was kinda fun!! I think you'll like living by your own set of rules, no one else to worry about, no one else in the potty when you really really need to go, eating the last of the ice cream without hurting anyone elses feelings, burping and farting without having to say excuse me!!! Lots of little perks there!!! Dont forget to give us your mew address
I know you'll be happier now :)
thanks, guys. I'm not unhappy here living with my friends, I just hate the commute. Here is what some of my other friends had to say and I thank you guys too!
Eric Gehman
4:17 PM (5 hours ago)
Hi Bicki,
It's good to hear from you. I remember when you were looking at apartments in Amarillo. It reminded me of when I was getting my first place. I didn't realize it was something you'd never gone through with before. I hope you're lovin' the new place; I know you like your solitude.
Happy arting,
-Eric-
Valerie Williams
4:59 PM (4 hours ago)
OK-I tried to leave a comment, and it didn't work :(, but I am super excited for you!! You will be thrilled I am sure, I have been. Sending the good vibes to you for an easy transition.
XOXO,
Valerie
Shepherd, Tiffiny
8:08 PM (1 hour ago)
Congrats Vicki, and wish you much success in your new journey. Living alone can be liberating and rewarding, especially if you are an independent. Good luck with the new place and with school.
Take Care,
Tiff
Congrats, Vicki, and enjoy your upcoming independence! I agree with everything Peg Wall said! Don't get me wrong, I love my husband dearly, but my fondest fantasy is having my own place, alone. I've even begged him to get me one of those little Amish-built sheds to put down by the creek for my art studio / getaway. Hasn't happened yet. :o(
Anyway, take time to settle in and get used to it. Don't rush out and get a pet or a room-mate or a live-in boyfriend. Give yourself time to groove on the solitude and let your creative juices gush forth.
(I'm so envious!)
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